Is this your pen... By Jason King

Casino the movie stars Joe Pesci in a particularly memorable scene... Bobby De Niro politely ask a guy if a pen is his. The guy, in an attempt to put De Niro in his place, responds less than cordial.

Pesci steps up and demonstrates with said pen to jugular vein, why we don't act that way as grown men.

While a graphic, Hollywood display of alpha male fueled homicide, and not particularly reality, there are lessons to be had. In any kitchen you go into as a new hire, you're  the jackass with the pen.

If a more senior cook, which is everyone there on your first day, lends you advice or help, take it. Thank him, be humble, make a new work buddy. Do not attempt to impress or set yourself apart. Your abilities and action should speak loudest.

If not you will be initially marked for extra scrutiny by the rest of the staff. You may have worked busier lines, longer, for less pay, and with a tougher chef. This isn't there. This is the your new job.

Don't be the guy getting scraps at family meal in a week. Or as in Casino the guy with pen wholes perforating their neck.

While most kitchens really won't stab you in the neck if you come in acting like a cocky badass, I only say most.